How important is your ceremony to you? When you get married, two individuals are creating a new family. Your sub-conscious is involved by using rituals. Your friends and family are involved by inviting them and when your are introduced (often Mr. & Mrs.) at the end of your ceremony of transition.
A wedding ceremony is so much more than just signing the paperwork and you are cheating yourself if this is your only goal. I've had people tell me they wanted to get the ceremony over with and get to the reception. The reception is the party celebrating your new status as husband and wife. That's why I say "you deserve the ceremony of your dreams!"